Sunday, April 06, 2008

And you're his...MOTHER?

So Alexander had his 6 month appointment on Thursday. We were actually there about 2 weeks late because of scheduling conflicts with our home inspection and other things... I took the day off because Leonard had to go to Ashtabula for a mediation and I wasn't trying to do all of the toting to and from the sitter's by myself. Not to mention that the poor baby was to get 3 shots with anticipated discomfort following. We get to the doctor's office early (for once) and sat in the waiting room with about 4 other pairs of folks there to see a doctor. We waited for about 5-10 minutes, all while Alexander was getting his normal, "Oh he's so cute" looks and comments. We're called back to the room and I put his stuff down and immediately get to undressing him. (We've got this routine down.) We had a new (different) nurse than the other 2 that we usually see and as I'm undressing him she's starting her customary developmental interview... She confirmed he was there for his 6 month well-check and the question that followed, said with uncertainty, was, "And you're his....mother?" Without a second thought I said, "YEP!" and continued to undress Alexander. It wasn't until she left the room that I realized what she asked me... I looked down at Alexander with a chuckle and said, "She asked me if I was your mommy..." Understandably so... But, still. It's kind of disheartening to hear. I always joke about how when I'm out with Alexander by myself that some folks would mistaken me for the nanny. But, for some reason it actually bothered me a little... Because I AM his mommy and I want people to know it! :) Then I thought of all of those people in the waiting room...what they must have thought. ((SIGH)) Oh, well... I guess I've got to get used it.

Here are the stats:

16 lbs 13 oz (25th - 50th for age)
25.5 inches long 25th (10th - 25th for age)
17.5 head circumference (50th - 75th for age)

2 comments:

Unknown said...

ugh. that really sucks.

I hope you mentioned what company you work for and what they do ;)

Omari's Oma said...

Heather -- Hi babe! Tara said to tell you you have a beautiful family and I told her that you were moving into a new house - and having a cookout!! She's excited!!
Don't you worry about what people think! Omari was "bright" too however, when he gets in the sun for 10 min. he definately looks more like his dad!! He'll "brighten down" some - but trust me, there is no denying that little guy - he is you!! Those eyes!! Tiffany is "bright bright" and I know they are sure Omari is hispanic!! So, don't let 'em get to ya!!

Miss you guys!! Give Alex and big hug from me!! Love you!!